The tram in Dresden is definitely one of the most convenient means to get from A to B. The network is extensive, the price of a monthly pass is acceptable and most new cars are often not very spacious and equipped with plenty of seating. Nevertheless, it is
and then again before that just on the busy routes at certain times of day so there is lots of activity that can lead to some 'seat shortage. This then has very different consequences: First
fill the remaining places, that is, to put it to people on the seats, the other passengers beside him or unconsciously aware of (the German is not sitting next to someone like that he does not know how to do ... or not ...) have released or blocked. Then it also happens schonmal that is shared by different people, the bank such as tourists, children, pensioners (yeah -.-), students ... violently or pubescent teenagers who her / their loved ones at each stop to tell exactly where they are and to repeat, if possible, yet umpteen times because the other person either to the ears or the connection is grottenschlecht ... (This is Smashing! Could I do today, even if the girl does not find, but behind me was - and three rows ... But do not worry, I could at least understand their side of the conversation excellent. She seems really good to blend in with her boyfriend, when I go to the interview, at least acoustically. She was at least not too fine to repeat everything over and over again in a significantly high level. This must be love ...)
In addition to verbal communication is indeed the one who, which has no words, which I find quite remarkable, and sometimes even appropriate to consider if the situation requires. Even more amazing than the process itself, however, the fact that in my opinion, only two of which are species-namely, the works and the one that does not work ...
to breathe To make matters even scientific: The (non-) verbal act is successful if the sender sends the receiver a message whose code the two is known, talk about the importance of which they both agreed, so that the recipient respond appropriately to the message can. The sender knows, he was understood. Often the content is easy to decipher, for example, because you already made similar experiences or because there are such conventions of everyday life.
That is not to say that nonverbal communication is always appropriate. Or the manner in which it is "expressed". And as I said, it is not always successful ... Here's an example, now experiences:
I sit on the floor, the window seat is free. - I do not want my marbles unnecessary squeeze into the narrow row of seats and single seats were occupied by the window all (of pensioners, how could it be otherwise). My goal is to place the post. To get there, the train travels over several stops, among other things, the Prague of the road (this is only a stop at my destination), where experience shows that many people get on and off. So now we communicate nonverbally times, * drum roll * Note: A pensioner gets in, takes three steps, spotted my neighbor empty space and stops abruptly. She looks suddenly empty, reproachful eyes on the seat next to me and does * surprise * NOTHING.
I've enjoyed a good upbringing and you have "my time" even older people can sit down, I will refrain from my'm not quite as non-verbal response ("Just look so sad, because you have swallowed your tongue or do you say to me that you may want to contact? ") and get up smiling. Despite the inability to force the woman, also her mouth a few millimeters up, folded our "conversation" and the woman mutters an impassive "Thanks, but do not watch myself.
Unfortunately, not all people are, the tram ride, blessed with the gift of certain actions correctly interpreted. So it happened that the successful non-verbal communication also still the same one followed unsuccessful.
I admit, I am very fit and not everyone falls pregnant belly, although he is quite prominent now, immediately under the thick coat on ... but when I wake up to offer a retiree an empty seat next to me, that does not mean that it may turn hang next best Trulla and their opulent regional gluteal an infinite self-evident may jump on my seat. Who participates in the world your way to a pregnant woman to the seat? Had to be yes, you go ten stops and not just a ... Neeneenee, that would have even a medium-intelligent chimpanzee strapped by pure observation that this is not the best idea of the day was. Even the official at the National Register has completely addressed without asking the child tax credit in connection with the upcoming birth of our baby, the other day when we were there and how long you saw me? Perhaps all of two seconds on the woes of chair A chair in the waiting area to B before their table, which was significantly shorter than the time that I needed to get up in the tram ... Or you could simply demand times, would go so well ... Bin
but then become somewhat verbal times - not so verbal, as I would have liked, but oh well ... - Because it has no words not even work out. I have but only a bare "I'd kept my seat quite happy ..." limited with proportionate reproachfully and matching facial expression, even if it was just one stop, on principle.
response hypocritical, because making no move to get up: "Oh, and I thought you wanted to get up ..."
* sigh * I did not get up, I was prompted to do so - from the gaping granny with facial paralysis - containing nonverbal. Well, is not just any capable, in whole exchange no words. Did it rely on then can be turned down and, although I there are still one or two things occurred to me but then the prefer to leave unsaid ;-)
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